Ahhhh…orgasms…sex chat…masturbation. It’s all a part of life. But the question is, have you had the most insane orgasm of your life… or are you still waiting to experience something as mind-blowing as this?

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For those of you who don’t know, February is MASTURBATION month. Not only do we love a good masturbation session – we love a good orgasm.

Before we dive into the many ways of reaching peak orgasm, there is nothing better than building that connection with your partner. When you have such an emotional intensity together, it makes the orgasm even more intense. When you can look at each other, feel safe, and feel like you can let go, you will experience things you never have.

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Anyways, here is my step-by-step guide to achieving that perfect orgasm.

1. MASTURBATE!!!

Why do you think this is number one? Because not only do I do this often, but this is exactly how I learn what I like and what I know I’m going to want to be incorporated into the bedroom play. People think that masturbation is taboo and a topic we shouldn’t talk about but HELLO?! We all do it, so why can’t we all discuss that this is how we learn what we like down there?

2. FOREPLAY

Okay…..why do we all think that foreplay is so overrated? IT’S NOT. Hello?! We all wanted to be warmed up before the main event! It’s as simple as making out, neck kisses, dirty talking, anything that will get those goosebumps hard on your skin. And that’s not the only thing that’s going to be hard……..

3. FIND THAT G-SPOT

We are going there. I don’t care. THE FUCKING G SPOT, BABY. There are only a few ways to stimulate that g-spot and let me tell you the best way: the finger curl. Yep. I said it. The two-finger curl like you’re telling her to COME HERE. Or, in other words..’ CUM’ HERE. If you use that duel finger combo and keep bringing it in, AND MIX THAT with a bit of tongue action, I’m telling you your girl is not only going to climax, but she’s most likely going to engage in water works too… and when that happens, you know you are doing something right.

4. TOYS

A little vibrator never hurt anyone…And you sure can’t let it hurt your ego. Listen, sometimes girls are tough cookies to crack.  It takes a lot for me to orgasm, so I bring a few tools of the trade into the bedroom. Mixing in a little vibrator is like stacking the deck for your pleasure. Maximize that pleasure with my go-to vibrator, the “We-Vibe chorus,” which is a couples vibrator that maximizes the pleasure by 100000000%. It’s ribbed and jacked for everyone’s pleasure. Lube? Yeah. That makes everything better and requires a couples shower to clean up.

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5. DIRTY TALK

If you are like me, a little dirty talk enhances that orgasm. If you tell me I’m a ‘good girl,’ I will crumble for you immediately. If you tell me I can’t cum yet, that will push me on edge – Take notes, gentlemen.

And lastly…

6. GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE

When it comes to a big ‘O’, there are sooooooo many different ways to achieve it, AND exploring your body (inside and out) works. Fingers, tongue, hands, cuddling, dirty talk, kissing, you name it – there are so many ways “make it happen.”  You have to be willing to let yourself let go – let loose explore, and RELAX. I’m telling you, if you drop your guard, you will achieve the most insane orgasm of your life. Trust me. It will change you.

So, what are you waiting for?

Don’t forget that February is masturbation month. Do it yourself if you don’t have a partner to go spelunking with. Practice makes perfect, and you deserve it.

XOXO

Allie